It is important that you understand all the treatment options available to you and the risks and benefits associated with these. Surgery can help many patients but not all. Furthermore no surgery is risk free and the benefits need to be balanced carefully against the risks. At your consultation I will go through all your treatment options with you. You should if possible bring a member of your family or trusted friend with you. I am also very happy for you to bring any therapists or other healthcare workers involved in your care. It is helpful to make a list of questions you would like answered and bring it with you. Do not be worried about asking me to go over things again if they are not clear.
Finally, do take your time in deciding what you would like to do.